the single life
this morning, as I scrubbed dishes and prepped veggies for dinner, I tuned in to Sounds like Canada on CBC. they were having Debra DiGiovanni and Victor Dwyer on to chat about life for singletons in a world of couples. at one point, Debra said: "you get to a certain age when you realize that the world is made for couples".
for some reason,that really resonated with me.the chat was all in good fun (and intended to be comical) - but I couldn't help but think about the issue in all seriousness. (but of course! I am "Little Miss Serious")
perhaps it's because I've reached that age where I realize that the world IS made for couples. this rings particularly true for social events - everything down to the planning can be meant for couples. it's almost like it's easier to double date to catch up with friends vs. asking your single friends out for a coffee. it's kinda like being a couple gives reason to socialize...
I think it's almost like being in a couple gives one the confidence to get "out there" and organize/attend fun social events. as a single person, there seems to be no good reason to do the same.
as a single gal myself (who has many paired up friends), I've been in my share of awkward social situations where I am quite literally the only single person there. I'm definitely not at a stage where I'm bitter about it...but my journalistic/anthropological leanings do make me curious about the rituals of singletons vs. couples around me...

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I must admit, I have fallen into the trap of "Life is easier to plan in couples". Many a times, you'll hear me curse, "I can't fill this ONE spot on this stinkin' seating chart! Why can't he have a GF?!?"
There aren't too many "cons" to being in a couple, in my opinion. However, then challenge comes in the form of finding the right "other half" to be a couple with. So, take your time! He's worth the wait!
And let me know if you need help *heh heh*
Heyhey! that makes.... two of us!
Not that I don't like being married, but having been single once, I can think of a few good reasons why being single is better:
- flirting at clubs, work, on the bus, etc. won't get you in trouble with anyone (unless you flirt with married men)
- being able to find time to do your own hobbies
- not having to share anything
- not having to "consult" anybody else if you want to go somewhere or do something
- your heart won't risk getting broken
Hope that's encouraging, Vespertine!
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